"He who hesitates is lost." In this situation, friend, hesitation brings regret. The right moment for seizing an opportunity or approaching a benefactor must be selected carefully, friend, but action should then be taken without equivocation. Giving your allegiance to a worthy leader may well be appropriate, if such a move would further your own interests.
Seize the day, or watch your chances disappear. Rather than look to some outside force, do your best to advance yourself through well-timed personal effort.